We
often take what we understand from our earthly parents and apply it to
God. It’s natural and it seems fitting,
but it is unhealthy and can cause tremendous damage to our walk with Jesus.
No
matter how well intentioned our parents were they installed three programs to
keep their children on the right path.
(And if we are parents now we do it too!)
PROGRAM
#1- Fear. If you don’t pick up your clothes from your bedroom floor this instant
you don’t even want to know what will happen! I might yell, I might ground you,
I might take your allowances away! It’s
threatening, it has illusions of power, and it works. If it didn’t work we wouldn’t use it. Bosses, lawmakers, coaches, and teachers
wouldn’t use it either.
PROGRAM
#2- Fortune. If you finish your vegetables
you can have some ice-cream. If you do
your chores you get some money. If you
don’t cry at the doctor you will get a new toy.
Fortune, prizes, junk food. Oh
yeah that works too right? In fact it
works better than fear sometimes because kids love fortune. Businesses, banks, insurance brokers, bosses,
coaches, and teachers use it as well.
PROGRAM
#3- Favor. We know our kids crave our affection and our praise. So we will withhold it sometimes for when
they have earned it. As kids we will do
anything to gain that favor. And so in
some parental cases it’s harder for the child to get than in others. Do I even have to explain how this works in our careers? And hey it works.
They
all work, but that doesn’t mean they are any good.
So
as a child we walk the line out of FEAR, we set our behavior according to the
FORTUNE’S available, and we jump through hoops to gain FAVOR. It’s a constant battle, our relationship with
our parents is battle, our relationship with our children in a battle, our
relationship with our employers and employees is a battle.
Then
we apply all we have learned from this life and expect Jesus to work the exact
same way. And He doesn’t.
What
so I have to do for You to not smite me?
What
do I have to do for You to bless me?
What
do I have to do for You to love me?
Why
do you obey your Heavenly Father? FEAR,
FORTUNE, FAVOR? Is your Christianity an
arrangement or a relationship?
Colossians
3:4 When
Christ who is your life appears, then you will also appear with Him in
glory.
Because
of Jesus you don’t have anything to FEAR.
Because
of Jesus you don’t have to strive for FORTUNE.
Because
of Jesus you don’t have to earn His FAVOR.
We
can be wholly motivated by the fact that Jesus is our life! He defines you.
You
are a new creation, positionally perfect and holy before God, primed for His
opportunities coming your way every new day.
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